no luck on restraining orders…honestly dont waist the courts and your time.
its also not for you to get involved. and you go to any police dept. and they will tell you the same thing.
change the email, and if the phone thing is getting that bad…opt to change that too.
keep records!!! If need be, the police (if you know someone) can file a harassment charge. They can contact this person and tell them what the deal is, and if it does not stop then further action will be taken…but again not much they can do bc police DO NOT deal with civil matters. but if you report it, and its on record, if something were to ever happen, god forbid, you have proof of his actions.
is this a case where it bothers you that he still stays in contact…or that it bothers her?
dont get your self all bunched up over some guy in a completely diff state!!! if its been a year or more since theyve even seen each other…what are you worried about?
Also, he can text, email, call all he wants…no disrespect but it only becomes a problem when the gf answers it…just tell her to ignore it. If she pursues then it looks like she still cares.