As much as I should be kicked in the balls for saying it’s a bad idea, it’s a bad idea. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll never be with her again, but you’ll be happy being able to look back knowing that you left with class when she was afraid to tell it straight. And that’s not to totally bash her. It’d be scary as hell to end something you’ve had for eight years, but it’s also unfair to put it on you. Whatever. Shitty situation with no “good” way out. Just wish her well and start the process of alcoholic self medication, followed by slam-pig-utilization, followed by doing your thing until you’re ready for a better chick. :tup: