A couple of days later, I have realized this isn’t that bad. They were there to support me, and feel my pain. They’re now sitting back, just being happy to see me doing better, no matter what decisions I’m making.
It’s not so embarrassing, being able to say “We werent right for each other”
Wow everyone’s been through this.
I feel better now.
Phew.
I went through that. But I was the 19year old dumper and he was the 20something moved-back-home-with-mommy Dumpee…after 4 years. It was really hard though. I still don’t feel like the same person and it’s been 3 years since we broke up. I STILL think about him, always. But you do come to a point where you know you’ll always think about that person and look back at whatever it was…but you start to look at it differently. And it’s better. And that’s the only way I can really explain it.
Me and the ex kept in touch here and there throughout the years, as friends. It was nice. Weird. But nice to know while you’re out there doin your thing, someone is out there still thinking about you. But then I think even that comes to an end…or should.
He came down to Pittsburgh, after not seeing him for 3 years, telling me he was going to sweep me off my feet and start where we left off. We made so many plans. Sounds far fetched but I fell for it anyways. It sounded great…even for the past 6 months when I haven’t heard a word from him since.
So, I just started getting over him. Again.
It sucks.
You never get over it.
You just start to look at it differently.
And it’s better.
I’m sorry babe, i didn’t mean to get your hopes up.
You broke my heart Howar’.
Hey… whuddya know…I call the man to “watch” the Steelers game together
[probably my first mistake right there huh?] since it’s our first one we haven’t watched together…and what does he tell me??? He’s not happy…and maybe[ dun dun dunnnn] it’s not me, it’s him.
We left off with the longest awkward silence ever…then a pathetic “well I guess we’ll talk tomarrow.”
WTF is going on!!!
Can we all just be pussies and meet up somewhere and hug and cry because this is fuckingrediculous.
***I’m so distraught i had to edit 8 spelling errors.
I can’t sleep:meh: 4:28am
xfiles marathon on tnt. :tup:
At least you get to try and sleep… I’m at work. an extra 5 hours more than was scheduled to… lol.
Yes. Somewhere with a large quantity of alcohol. And women. Anyone up for Canadia this weekend? PM me.
fuck yeah.
Damn, I guess I’m the only one who hasn’t had their heart broken
yeah. not being able to sleep sucks. i’ve been sleeping like crap the past week or two. a few times i was up until 7am. friggin crap i tell ya!
I’ll be a pussy and give you a hug, if it will make you feel better. Plus, nobody has hugged me since all of this has happened… so, I could use one too.
Since I am going through this, I KNOW what you’re going through. I still havent found the right path to go down to get on with my life yet. It’s really quite scary.
If you’d rather have a one on one convo with someone, just AIM me at Clean Baldy. Trust me, I have lots of time now… plenty of time for others, too. I am realize how much I stopped being there for others, when I went into my relationship. I miss that.
in the words of Joe Dirt…You Just Gotta Keep on Keepin On
That’s exactly what I said when I first read this thread. I am now eating those words.