I found this on another forum…
"I had this sent to me by a buddy. To me it was fucking hilarious some may not see it like that but I thought most of you would enjoy this.
Take note, the guy ‘Johny’ hasnt heard or seen this girl in 3 years and all of a sudden he gets this email.
Friends, Some of you may remember by ex-girlfriend Sarah. I recently
recieved a letter from her. I would appreciate it if you would take the
time to read it and review my response. I hope all of you are well.
May 23, 2005
Dear Johny:
I have had a difficult time, over the past few years,
achieving closure of our relationship. It is time for me to seek this.
I have gone through the appropriate stages of anger, remorse, sadness.
It is now time for me to close this chapter of my life.
I am trying to recapture my life and gain a sense of identity
back. In my professional life I have done this, but my personal life
struggles. For so long I/We were “Sarah and Johny”, that it is hard to
gain my own identity back. I am not worried about my career; I will
soon succeed even my wildest dreams. I am just stunted by my personal
life.
I am ready to release you from my life. I also on a weekly
basis encounter people who want to tell me about you or have a
discussion about you. I do not want to deal with this anymore. I do
have a proposal on how to handle this
I am ready to no longer be forced to deal with your presence.
As to how to deal with it, I propose the following:
-
I’ve heard you have an apartment on the West side. You need to
move out of the West side of Indianapolis, this has always been my side
of town, I own a house here, and do not rent like you. I grew up here,
and always want to live here. I would prefer if you were to leave
Indianapolis all together, but I know this is more than I can ask. I do
not want to risk running into you at any store. -
We should officially divide our friends. Particularly Jim,
Jillian, Amy, and Ed. You should write them, thanking them for the
opportunity to be their friend and explain why you can no longer be in
contact with them. I can provide you with addresses, if you need. -
I will stay out of Republican politics. I promise not to get
involved with any Republican politics, unless my father runs for judge,
and than I reserve the right to work on his campaign. -
I would like you to not have anything to do with all things
Cathedral. I feel I should have ownership of the school since my mother
works there and my brother and sisters went there. You are more tied to
Wabash. This should be where you dedicate your alumni status. I will
be involved in Cathedral. When the time of reunions comes up, I am
willing to say that you can have the reunions ending in “0” years and I
will take the"5" years. So you can have 10 years and I will take 25
years. -
I will avoid Wabash contacts. The few guys from the house I
still speak to on a rare basis, I will not. I will also discourage any
male offspring I have from attending Wabash.
I know some of these things seem a bit harsh, but I feel they are for
the best. I do not ever really wish to see you again. I know that this
will of course happen beyond my control, but I think we should do our
best to avoid what we can.
It is my sincere hope that you understand, and do take the time to
respond. This is my last request of you.
With fondness,
Sarah
May 31, 2005
Dear Sarah,
Thanks for your letter. We broke up 3 years ago. Knowing that and
taking into consideration you believe me to be a cold, career focused,
ego-maniac, what on earth makes you think I would take the time to think
about you or agree to your proposal? But since I clearly have taken the
time to respond, please take a moment to review some comments and
counterproposals I have crafted.
-
First, I will have to resist the burning urge to move RIGHT
NEXT DOOR TO YOU. After that deep desire subsides, I will vacate the
Westside and return to my roots: The Snooty Northside, as you used to
call it. However, since I was born on the Northside and I have
Northside in my veins you must abdicate all ties to the North. This
includes: Living on the Northside, living on the Northeastside, walking
down North Street, being a fan of the Dallas Stars (formerly the
Minnesota North Stars), weari ng North Face apparel or telling your
children that Santa lives at the North Pole. 1 (B). I was born in
Indianapolis before you were so I should really get to determine who
stays and who goes. In my benevolence I will let you exist here only
within the St. Michael’s Parish boundary (MLK Dr. to High School Rd. and
56th Street to 10th St.) We will call this the SarahZone. This should
be acceptable for you as your family lives across the street and there
is a gas station, grocery, convenience store, your place of employment
and a fire station. Exceptions can be made with my expressed written
consent. You will be required to display a large tag in your windshield
giving you permission to travel beyond the SarahZone. -
I haven’t talked to your friends since we broke up. I think
they got the message. However since we apparently are still in fourth
grade, please have your friends meet me by the playground at recess so
that I can tell them they have big fat heads and they aren’t my friends
anymore. Do you agree? _______Yes ________No ________Maybe 2 (B).
One of the few times you let us do something fun, we visited some of my
family friends on Geist. It was about eight years ago. We enjoyed
their boat and home for several hours during a pre-500 party. Please
jot them a note saying you are going to forget that ever happened.
Please also offer to reimburse them for the boat gas, pool chlorine, air
conditioning Freon, Dr. Pepper and anything else you consumed while you
were there. I don’t have their address anymore, you can look it up. -
Please let me know when your father runs for anything. I’m
going to run against him. 3 (B). Thanks for staying out of Republican
politics. Your heavyweight presence in the party will be sorely missed.
I am very involved in ice hockey. I play recreationally and coach a
youth team in the winter. I would prefer it if you could stop being
involved in all things related to ice and ice hockey . You can use
those instant first aid coldpaks to cool your drinks from now on. Also,
my parents have been very involved with the Indianapolis 500 Festival
for nearly 20 years. The month of May is really a big month for us.
While I am not able to honor your request of moving out of Indianapolis,
I would ask that you just leave town during May. With 250,000 fans
going to the race and 35,000 runners in the Mini-Marathon, I don’t want
to run the risk of bumping into you. I know your birthday is in May,
but man, I just don’t care. -
Christ, I don’t have the energy for this one.
-
If any of my friends from Wabash actually still talk to you,
they are fucking fired as friends. 5 (B). I’m not going to tell my kids
anything about you. But speaking of kids, it would be okay with me if
my son was a crack addict, just as long as he got your kids hooked on it
and became their dealer.
In closing, I will never make decisions about my life or my family
based on whether I might run into you at the store. I am now convinced
that if we ever do bump into each other, you will spontaneously combust.
I wish you the best of luck find a spouse. Seriously. It won’t be
easy to find a person who is willing to spend the rest of his life
raising children and making decisions based on your crazy-ass proposal
to an ex-boyfriend and your inability to act like a rational human
being.
All my best,
Johny"