It totally depends on what function your car has (ie drift, drag, autox) as to how the suspension is set up. You are right that if I camber my front wheels in it will handle like shit, but it actually helps when drifting. Benny is right though, 99% of the population would not be able to tell the difference between a properly modified suspension and slammed coilovers.
and referring to everything that you dislike as “ricer,” does make you elitest