lol when i broke up with my gf i said “we should be friends”…havnt seen her since. she tries, but i want nothin to do with the drama.
Don’t be afraid to be stern with her…as a girl, i’m telling you…just say you have no feelings for her anymore and that’s the bottom line. leave it at that…don’t talk about in the past how good everything was etc…just hand her ALL of her stuff so she has no reason to stop by or call and be done with this. give yourself 5 minutes with her…that is it, anything longer and you won’t be getting out of there without her back in your life. good luck.
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I am a calm, collected person. I didn’t know I had the abillity to get crazy and act insane. When my girlfriend of almost two years left, I lost it. I mean, LOST IT. She didn’t want to talk to me, and it made it worse. I didn’t know I could act like a psychopath… but, given the right situations, I think anyone is capable of it. Emotions, I discovered, are very powerful.
Now, if your girlfriend is already nutso, and has psychotic abilities… you’re asking for it. Plus, you say she says “I love you” constantly, and has become co-dependent on your existence being in her life. THIS WILL NOT BE AN EASY THING FOR EITHER OF YOU.
My ex didn’t care about me anymore, and showed it by not wanting to deal with it or talk to me afterwards. She just wanted to move on. It made it worse on me and it got to the point where I did some pretty awful things. Now, I did them in moderation and nothing permanent. I knew I was just acting crazy, was hurt, and lost something. This girlfriend of yours is gonna snap…
The first time that my girlfriend and I broke up, she was there for me, and we ended up getting back together. Her showing an ounce of care made me keep fighting. I think that was the wrong thing to do, because it made it seem like we wanted to work things out. If you truly want to be rid of her existence forever, you can’t care anymore. If shes your past, you have to put here there. Any care, any sign of “Lets just be friends” and she’s got in her mind “Theres a chance!”
The second time, she showed no care. She wasn’t there for me, and it made me lose my mind, and go crazy. I think she did the right thing, because we both knew how I would react if she showed care still. It sucked for me at the time, and for a while. But, I’m perfectly fine now, happy in a new relationship of almost 6 months now. It took a while to get over her, a few girls dated, but in the end… things turned out OK. I just wish now that I never acted so damned crazy, because she was my best friend. She wanted to be friends she said, and we did talk. But, if we ever started talking about US, she soon wanted to get off the phone.
Good luck man.
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good luck nick!
fucking word…are you like 16?
thats not kiddie porn. kiddie porn is like 12. that is underage, not kiddie.
but on that note. nm.
best responce ive hear in one of these threads yet. the best thing is to be in a situation where you can leave. if shes at your house or something like that where she would have to leave, is a bad situation to be in. she can flip out and get violent, break things in the house, and everytime you have a bitch whos all upset, driving and thats not a good combo…
i say get the balls and go to ehr house with her backpack, and anything else you might have thats hers, and let her know what you want and how its going to be. you just need to man up, once its over it really wont be that bad.
^this is the plan lol.
tonight when i finish putting my focus back together(guessing around 9ish) im gonna call her up and ask her if its ok if i stop by to drop off her backpack. then once i get there i plan to either stay within the front hall and tell her i just want to talk for a minute to get something off my chest…and then ill just come out with it nice and easy. when she starts flipping im just gonna leave and be done with it. first thing tomarrow morning i have to go to cingular and have unlimited text added to my phone and have her number blocked. everyone pray for me lol, i dont feel like starting a thread at 10pm tonight with pictures of my black eye and bruised nutsack
she’s guna track you down and want some kind of verbal explaination. If you want it done just get it over with. Even a phone conversation. Stand your ground, listen to her whining and crying and just tell her you cant do it anymore.
edit: looks like ur guna tell her in person atta boy
^^^^^
and dont forget your mugshot too…lol
dont forget your mugshot too…lol
wear a cup, a helmet and a chest protector…then when she askes you why your wearing it…dump her… :lol:
^hahaha. im about to jump in the shower, and call her. T-minus approx. 35mins to dump time lol. :lockd:
eesh
good luck bro
… hell with good luck, just actually do it this time… 
fuck…she wont let me stop by shes going to bed!!! FUCKIN A. i guess ill have to try again tomarro
fuck:rant:
call her back and be like
IT’S REALLY IMPORTANT I TALK TO YOU
i guarantee you she knows and is blocking you
EDIT: and tired chicks can’t punch that hard
EDIT2: shit, that sucks dude. try to set up a time to meet with her tomorrow night then?
^^no, her mom said i cant stop by