But what happens when telling the truth leads to drama, which is a distinct possibility in this case?
I’ve read before that if you say too low a number, its bad b/c the woman then assumes that you aren’t desireable. A higher number is sort of like stock, women see that it is desireable and want to jump on it (figuratively or literally) while the going is good.
Either way, its a loaded question that is just better off not asked.
A girl will ask this question if she is trying to “get a feel” for her mission. If she thinks the guy is just trying to get laid… She’ll ask the question. If he is truthful and says 90 gabillion… she will more than likely walk away and assume he is a hound.
If he says a low number and her friend told her that he has fucked everyone in town… she will then know he is a hound and a liar… and walk away.
If she hasn’t heard anything about him and do not be fooled… she will have asked person she knows about him… Then she will try to evaluate on her own…
Avoid this q and a its bad no matter what, in this day and age guys numbers are higher than the 1950’s sex is all around us, it happens, gees what if he was with 20 and 19 were short term relationships and the girls all cheated on him and left, would it really be his fault for 20??? who cares, its a number, and if he’s clean thats all that really matters, try not to answer that one, avoid it, explain it dont matter, cause it dont. IT really dont matter,
Its just experiance? hahaha
if you answer a high number, she’s going to think you’re not commitment material… i’m sure if you answer a low number, she’ll find some reason to be neurotic about it.
that’s one of those questions you should avoid, on the same list as, “am i the best you’ve ever had?”
-get drunk
-hit it
-ask questions later
If it all works out well, she won’t have to ask questions, then just go with the flow…until ur pee pee falls off and green pussies are abundant on ur face, then ur in trouble.
you just say how many and be honest…that is all, like another guy said, if its meant to be and she really likes you she either wont care or will get over it
Ken I want you to go look in the mirror and say “Ken, your good enough, your smart enough, and doggone it people like me” … then go answer that question!!!