Big thanks to johawk! I just purchased the usa-spec ipod interface part # pa11-gm45. for $119 with free shipping
provides full control over your ipod thru your stock headunit. Also charges the ipod while its hooked up. Full plug and play install as well, just plug it into the back of your stock deck and run the interface/wires into the glove box to hook ur ipod into.
Crutchfield sells these for almost any car, seems like an awesome product, ill have it wednesday or thursday according to crutchfield. If anyone else is interested im gonna install it on thursday (day off) and ill let you all know how it works.