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[usmc2801]

@PJB

damn, $1200 for a hitch? Rip off. Here’s a hitch and wiring combo:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/TRAILER-HITCH-WIRING-KIT-FITS-07-11-BMW-X5-75600-/400247222078?pt=Motors_Car_Truck_Parts_Accessories&fits=Year%3A2010%7CMake%3ABMW%7CModel%3AX5&hash=item5d3097ef3e&vxp=mtr
Installation should be about a half hour labor.

And how much do you want to bet that nothing lines up with that hitch?