I (and I am sure Jammer) argee for the most part. For the most part, a chick knows if she wants to fuck you within 1 minute of meeting you, so dragging it out for hours before popping the question often times does not help.
However, sometimes you gotta be sly about it and throw in some BS like “ooh I’ve never had sex with someone I just met, but I really like you” “Oh I promise we will hang out after we have sex”, etc, some shit like that. You gotta be able to correctly predict what they want to hear on a case by case basis at times.
Well for most people, knowing that should come before you even think about stepping up the game and beign straight out, thats how I used to work, I used to think they wanted the nice guy etc…
then i started being an asshole with nice guy attributes and it worked out quite nicely
I’ve been talking to/dating girls who were 18 or 19 or so and it was just a mess of games. They don’t know what the hell they want. Girls who are 21 or 22 are so much more intelligent/worthwhile it’s not even funny.
Yeah, I try for the older girls 20+, I hate girls in the 17-19 bracket
Luckily the girlfriend is 20 and is Ukrainian but she knows what she wants, she better at least have some idea as she carrying my soon anyday now to be born kid
I try to avoid chicks under 25. It’s FAR more fun being a TOTAL asshole to some chicks then actually fucking them. I can sense a lame fuck most of the time.
Ha, thanks man. I’ll be downtown next weekend w/Singh and some other friends if you want to come. It’s actually my Bday weekend out so a couple free drinks would be great!
The best advice that I can give you on getting laid is just go out, have fun with your friends and don’t be one of those guys that goes out with the #1 mission to get laid. If the nights fun always revolves around chicks, then the night will feel like more of a war mission then a fun night out with friends. If you appear confident, cheerful and fun, that’s a great start for a first impression on a chick. I tend just to make contacts when I go out and follow up with them later. One thing that irks me is when friends see me talking to a chick one on one, and see that as there invite to talk to them also. If i’m with a group of girls, for sure, come over, but if i’m talking one on one, give me my five minutes and find your own chick. I give all of my friends that same respect and I wish some certain friends would give it to me…
As far as finding a relationship…you just gotta be yourself and find a chick that likes the real you. If you are trying to be something that you arent, then it’ll never work out in the end.
Perfect advice right there, i was just going to say like the same thing. I met you Chris, your a good looking kid so my guess is you either try to hard or your too freindly and get sucked right into being the “freind”(plus i bought your old ipod and there was alot of whiny i miss my gf stuff on their lol).
Dont try hard, dont act like you care, and be a bit mysterious, girls love to hunt like guys do, even if they have boyfreinds they always want more, when you suck them in that way and have their attention, you win. Always be confident and have something to say so it doesnt look like your trying hard, thats why you just dont have to care, when you care you put pressure on yourself and screw up lol
Along with all this advice chirs ill probably give you one of the moer important pieces of advice following all this other advice
If your not comfortable with doing it dont. Don’t try to be cool just to get laid and or impress people because youll prolly feel like shit afterwards…
If your not an asshole by nature then all this advice is just going to piss you off more as you fight your morals…
If your like me you can brake your morals and shut them the fuck up, but sometimes that sucks
As someone who knows you rather well Chris…youre really not as much of and asshole as you come off to be… the whole fuck yeah im gonna bang mad bitches tonight thing just aint you. Just chill out and dont go looking to get laid and youll probably meet some cool chicks.
Some of the best things are accidents;)
we talked about this recently actually, and I totally agree
DONT go out just to “get laid” thats extremely lame and will leave more disappointed than happy…
Also going out to meet girls is fine as long as you dont have expectations…
if your under 25 IMO you should only be looking for one thing, that is sex… if you are looking for a girlfriend/relationship status dealio… thats where your going wrong… relationships just happen on their own and you meet a girl who is pretty chill and as long as you dont start it off on some “marry you” shit then its all good
meet as many girls you can and dont be clingy to anyone, because you dont have to worry about finding the right girl , she will find you for sure… you meet a whole bunch of new girls then you will find some of them are cool and you want to hang out with, then a relationship thing can go about, but otherwise just move on , dont try to make shit work IMO !
im asked alot why im singhle and its simple cuz i dont go looking for girl friends, i am always looking/meeting new girls and that never gets old but i dont cling to any of them if im not really feeling them, and girls under 21 are VERY lame, im actually done with them, there is no reason u should be looking at girls under 21, its just a pain in the ass, i love going out and shit and with a minor its SUCH a pain in the dick to do that…
so maybe if i meet a chick who is pretty chill and doesnt drive me crazy i’ll change up the lifestyle, but until then im chillin single and its cool with me, there is NO drama (for the most part) just sometimes they can get to me but thats my own fault, nothing i cant deal with
i think a common problem is that girls complain about finding the wrong guys and guys complain about finding the wrong girls… and its obvious why
I dont think chris was asking for advice on getting laid, i think he was just trying to find a girlfriend btw…
OH and another thing i want to touch on is this “one night stand shit” how exagerated is this? LOL comon im sure more than a handful of us has been thru one night stands, but how often ? some of you single dudes act like your game is so tight you are regulary experiencing these? telling me you get laid by a different girl through a one night stand on the regular is like travis telling me hes paying his bills winning poker games !