if you’re parents dont help you out when you need it then they are total failures at life.
i dont ask my parents for much, but when i need or have needed help, i dont ask… i tell them what is required of them and they had better do it or i wont love them.
seriously, if you’re a 50+ year old father and your son needs a brake line for $8 and you actually want to be paid back… fuck you buddy, get a life. (talking about the father here, not anyone in this thread)
similarly, if your son or daughter is going into university and has to take out OSAP (or can’t qualify because the parental income is too high) and the parent’s dont throw some $$$ on him… that is retarded.
what the fuck do they have a job for???
if you are 50 years old and cant spare $5,000 for your children’s education i ask you… what the fuck have you been doing for the last 25 years?
Not assisting your children and having them be forced to work 30+ hours while doing college / university 30+ hours and then being social so that they can eventually have their own families DOES NOT BUILD CHARACTER like some people suggest.
It compromises the quality of education, it compormises the quality of social development and it compromises the quality of employment. It re-enforces the boundaries of mediocrity around you.
When you are 17 - 22 and in school you are not working for $40k a year, you are working lesser jobs, part or semi-full time and making $18k a year if you are lucky to offset living and learning expenses.
If you didnt have to work that hard you could focus more on education and fucking your future wife.
When you get out of school and you DONT have to pay down that $30k OSAP debt that means you can buy a home sooner, start living life sooner. Start building your OWN family sooner… That is a major social and demographical issue in Western countriues right now. Asians (browns and east asians) are multiplying and helping their children.
Stupid western caucasian families are making thier children work harder for it and having fewer children because they are starting later because their parents are not helping them. Then you get shit like Brampton.
If your parents dont help you achieve that then thier lives have been for not.
Having children is not in itself an achievement. Bettering yourself so that your children can be more advatnaged and become better than you were because they didnt have to deal with alot of the bullshit you had to is an achievement.
anyone who suggests that their children should have to work as hard as they did is missing the point and is a total moron. They are obviously angry at their own parents for being such failuers that they couldnt help them more and so they are taking it out on their own kids.
fuck people like that, i feel bad for their children and i LOVE seeing young guys get a new 3-series in Univerisity and walking into a good middle-management job right after school. They LOOK the part.
or similarly, Sasha… i bet he is building more character than anyone who is paying for it all.
Their parents broke free of the middle-class mentality and realised there is alot more important things that the supposed building of character. There is actually experiencing the kind of lives that peopel were supposed to lead in teh 21sty century. They work less and make more and spend more time on vacation and with families not working 9-5 paying down student debts, car payments and first mortgages.
